A 12 Week 1:1 Coaching Program to

Break free from unwanted patterns and start feeling aligned with what lights you up!

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 This is for you… yes YOU.

I see you.

Did a dramatic or traumatic incident happen to you recently and you don’t feel like yourself anymore?

You’re now constantly living in survival, feeling anxious, sometimes depressed, mentally scattered, almost like you have PTSD, ADHD… or one of those ending in “D”.  

You’ve realized a lot of your life you’ve been living for others, but not for yourself.

And now you want to get back to some sense of normalcy and feel alive again as your Authentic Self.

You’re ready to get back to doing what lights you up!

Could you use some support from others to help you thrive?

Does is seem sometimes you lose a sense of drive and motivation?

You’re tired of constantly having to prove yourself.

Do you face an old habit, pattern, or coping mechanism you know isn’t serving you?

… maybe you’re losing sleep

… maybe it’s conflict with a partner

… maybe it’s getting lost in overthinking things

… maybe something sucks a lot of energy from your day.

Are you ready to break up with that pattern and create a new one that would be a refresh for you?

Do you want to get back to functioning in good energy, focused, enjoying your life, and feeling aligned in what you do?

Do you struggle taking care of yourself, getting your needs met while battling close relationships that matter to you?

Are you processing the pain that came up after a past relationship, or a fall out and you haven’t quite gotten over it ?

Would it free you to work through conflicting emotions, stress, loneliness and find closure from something that happened in the past?

Maybe you’ve experienced how frustrating it is to be in a toxic anxious- avoidant rollercoaster with someone and you want true love.

Would it feel empowering to have the tools to navigate challenging conversations when they surface?

Ultimately, you’d like to have more meaningful relationships and experience the possibility of a healthy partnership with someone you love.

You want to feel connected to those you care about, and the confidence to be who you truly are without looking for reassurance from others.

What would it be like if you could get more in touch with your inner world and have it feel congruent with your outer world and relationships.

Does it seem like you’re limited in your normal capacity to work and there’s financial stress on the line?

…you’re just not you’re high-functioning self.

You feel depleted from being in a chronic fight / flight state, and you feel like you can’t even imagine a potential future.

You’re bogged down by having a lot on your mind and depression is making you feel stuck. 

Maybe you need help processing through the grief of losing someone or something you feel you can’t get back.

You’re learning how to be ok and find acceptance, but what you really want is to be able to shake it off and move forward.

Maybe you’re overwhelmed with “to-do’s” and you feel like something bad might happen if you don’t do more, love more, work more, be more…

… so you put more pressure on yourself to be an A+ Human at everything. 

It is hard to ask for help, too?

Even if you’re making good money, your job has become such a stress load, you’re not sleeping well, and you’re constantly trying to balance your energy between work and personal life..

… on top of that you want to create a better environment when you come home. 

You’re trying to have work structures and systems put into place that would more effectively help you thrive and support your financial goals.

Maybe you’re wanting to transition into a new job or venture.

At the end of the day you just want to feel secure in your work and have an abundance of money coming in to support what you want to do, the life you want to live, and create financial peace and freedom. 

Sometimes you retreat into your head and wrestle with your own self-worth, overthinking, negative self-talk, comparison, feeling like something you’re doing is wrong… having a fear of failure.

Do you want to set more boundaries for yourself and have a way to work through emotions like anger, depression, and anxiety without completely burning out or imploding?

Maybe you’re preparing yourself for a new relationship.

You long for a partner that has already grown the F*&% up, that isn’t resistant to working on themselves or going to therapy.

You want someone confident, safe, and supportive… someone you can trust and also enjoy being close and have more fun!

You want a partnership where your desires & needs are being met, you can openly communicate, and you feel heard, seen, and understood. 

…feeling ready and open for an amazing Life and relationship that feels aligned to YOU. 

Not just settling or accepting what you used to, but receiving what you REALLY desire. 

Does this resonate with you ?

Here’s one of the biggest lesson’s I’ve learned about relationships…

Everyone’s got a break up story, but it wasn’t until I fell apart over someone that I woke up and started going after what I really wanted. 

I tried to fit myself inside someone else’s box, so I could be loved.

It didn’t work.

I was playing small and it backfired on me. 

I remember lying on the floor every Sunday after a long week, distraught, exhausted, and depressed… constantly wondering what was wrong with me, and how I could win her love back. 

Looking back at what went sideways… I tried to please someone else while ignoring my own needs, and not living in full authenticity of where I was at in life. 

I was self-sacrificing, trying to figure out how to make someone happy and how to make a relationship work. 
… feeling disconnected from my emotional needs and desires.

Not knowing how to love myself and what seemed like grasping at straws, I tried to prove my worth and win her back after we had split and she had moved on. 

It monopolized my mind for a long time. I felt overwhelmed by how to love someone the way I thought they needed to be loved…
… but it was myself I had to love and accept . 

To my friends I probably sounded like a broken record, and found myself repeating the same conversations over and over to a therapist. 

I felt anxious, depressed, alone, and experienced several panic attacks. 

I had to bounce back, so I went deep into...

… self-study, therapy, love coaching, spiritual learnings, mindfulness practices and meditation. It was all helpful, yet I often felt small and powerless. 

I knew there had to be more to love and creating a meaningful aligned life.

 That’s when I shifted to a Holistic mind, body, and soul approach to healing relationships and Discovering Your Aligned life…

I’m passionate about helping you...

…have the confidence and personal freedom to break free from unwanted patterns like codependency, people pleasing, and self doubt.

…love yourself so you can creating a aligned life and relationships that feel connected, passionate, and exciting.

When you find a deeper love for yourself, you become a powerful force naturally inviting your partner to do the same and come into alignment with what you desire for your life.

As a Life, Love, and Trauma-Informed Coach, I’m here to support you.

— Aaron Tosti

HOLD ON, THIS IS POSSIBLE FOR YOU..

If you’re like me, you...

Want meaningful relationships that feel connected, kind, and supportive, where you can be your authentic self.

You’re looking for a partner that loves you for who you are, not what you sacrifice. 

… and wake up everyday to a life that feels aligned to your desires full of passion, intimacy, and personal freedom. 

You’re weary of not finding a love that will last. 

And you still find yourself settling for what you don’t want, because you feel that’s all there is.

But Imagine If…

…you could pursue your dreams while having relationships and a life that is passionate and fulfilling. 

…you were abundant with amazing friends and meaningful relationships. 

… you had the money to support you in what you really want to do. 

…you felt invigorated, alive, and excited for what's next. 

…and calling in your one was fun, exciting, and felt like it added more to what you already have.

What If Other People Saw How Much You Glow...

…and you have to pinch yourself because it’s almost too good to be true. 

Together we can help you… 

… not waste time struggling to get your partner to do the inner work and chase down love and life hacks that don’t work. 

…. stop spending unnecessary money on dating apps, impersonal online self-help courses, or worse… divorce.

And instead, get you results!

It’s about breaking free from self-sacrifice and unwanted patterns, embracing joy, feeling empowered, and living life unapologetically aligned as your authentic Self.

 I’m passionate about helping people who feel stuck in unwanted patterns…break the cycle, love who they are, and move into the aligned life and relationship they desire. 

Looking forward to speaking with you and supporting you where you’re at. 

Best, Aaron